Sunday, July 17, 2011

The Ladder Of Success

The first objective to attaining success is determining exactly what success means to you. What would it take for you to feel that you are a success? In our society, we often view success as making lots of money, having power/talent/beauty and being recognized for such attributes.

However, success comes in various levels and doesn't always have to mean wealth and fame. Accomplishment of a goal is well worth pursuing. Success can be harvesting vegetables from your first garden or the completion of a manuscript. There is no greater excitement than the "I did it!" moment.

But, the thing is to keep your success in perspective so you will always enjoy the moment and look back on your successes, no matter how small, with pride. Success can become failure if you expect too much of it, if you start comparing your success to what others have accomplished, and if the worry of failure overshadows all else.

For a writer to make the NYT bestseller list is to be considered a huge success. However, unless they make the #1 spot, they are still not tops, and if they do, how long does their book stay there? Long enough? And what about the next book? Will it be a success too?  You see, success is never predictable. It has no stability. It can vanish in a moment and we can be at the bottom of the ladder instead of the top.

So, while you climb the ladder, celebrate your achievements as something that has made you happy, made you feel good about yourself and your capabilities, given you a good memory to cherish and the will to stay on the ladder.  It doesn't matter where you are on the ladder. You can go up and down as much as you want.

The main thing is to enjoy the climb.


Claire Robyns said...

That's a lovely reminder to stay faithful to our own goals and measure our success by what we want, and not neccesarily by the achievements of others.

Wendy Soliman said...

I agree with Claire. For me nothing will eclipse having my first book accepted. I'd written that all on my own and someone wanted to publish it. Surreal! Eleven published titles on and still nothing's topped that feeling.

Patricia Preston said...

I just left a comment and I don't know what happened to it. Anyway, glad you enjoyed the post. It was inspired by a friend who no longer thinks she is a success but she is just using the wrong ruler.

Taryn Kincaid said...

Hmmm. I wonder if that's me. Oh, well. Whether it is or not, I do understand what my achievements are. And what they aren't. Pragmatic in that way.